How often have you had to help your child with homework? And how often have you wondered if you should do it at all? It happens that homework becomes the cause of quarrels between parents and children, because parents want to improve the results of the child, worry about his future. But are all methods good for achieving the goal? Maybe it is worth leaving the child behind?
The role of parents in the educational process
Parents, of course, should take care of the upbringing and development of children, but they should not be fully involved in homework. Teachers see the big picture of the knowledge and skills that need to be developed, select tasks and assess their performance. That's their job! The parent's task is to create conditions in which the child can study calmly and productively.
Ways to motivate children
How to help a child without overloading him and turning the learning process into hellish torment and brain drain? It is important to find appropriate methods of motivation. For example, come up with small rewards for completing tasks, such as a lollipop at the end of a paragraph or sticky notes to track progress (they help children see how much has already been done and encourage them to keep working)
Homework is not a reason for quarrels
No one wants scandals out of nowhere. It is important to establish a daily routine that will include time for homework. Discuss expectations and goals with your child, focus on the learning process, not just its results. Encourage diligence, effort, not just grades! It will be useful to cooperate with the teacher and listen to his recommendations - his words deserve attention.
Creating an environment for learning
An important aspect of helping the child will be the creation of a comfortable corner for studying in the house. Give the child a place where no one will disturb him. A corner with a comfortable table, good lighting and affordable, cute and convenient stationery is already a good support. It is not important to perform tasks for the child, but to create conditions for this process.
Every family is unique, there is no universal recipe for happiness and success, but the desire to find a balance in how to participate in the school affairs of your child can significantly improve the atmosphere in the house. Be patient, interested, and understanding, and your efforts will bear fruit!
