Hierarchy in the East is strongly expressed, as is the observance of traditions. European rules of good manners are also present, but with some peculiarities. The following 13 tips will help you get started in Southeast Asia faster.
Learn a few words in a foreign language
Take a look at the phrasebook and learn to say hello, goodbye, thank you. Locals will be surprised and glad that you know a few words in their language.
Don't flaunt your feelings
Personal scenes in the form of quarrels, kisses are normal in Europe, but not in Asia. Try to keep a low profile.
Do not throw your arms around
Asians are not used to liberal European greeting methods. A handshake is considered a generally accepted greeting, and when making a bow with folded palms on the chest, it is worth remembering that the level of the position of the hands (higher / lower) can change the meaning of the bow. To avoid getting into an awkward position, simply greet the person by tilting your head slightly.
Seniors greet first
This is due to the hierarchy within society. Of course, they can forgive ignorance of this fact, but they will definitely point out the mistake.
Respect your elders
When visiting the table, the eldest of the family members first sits down, and only then the rest. Only the best from the table is served to the guest, so do not leave food on the plate. If you feel full, politely cover the plate with your hand and skip the supplement.
Do not leave chopsticks upright in the plate
Sticks sticking upward are associated with incense used on a variety of occasions, including rituals with the departed. This position of the sticks is considered a harbinger of trouble. Better to put them on a table or the edge of a bowl.
Always ask before taking a photo of someone
Try to respect the feelings and desires of other people. Not everyone wants to be the object of your attention.
Be prepared for direct personal questions
Following the greeting, you may be abruptly asked questions about your age and marital status. Answer honestly and without annoyance. This is not a simple curiosity: this is how the interlocutor wants to know your position and how to properly "politely" address you.
Don't touch other people's heads
The cleanest parts of the body are the hair and the head, so only their owner can touch them.
Treat traditions and shrines with respect
It is forbidden to turn your back on idols and gods. You can't turn your feet to them - these are the dirtiest parts of the body.
Dress properly
Refrain from swimming topless. Shorts, a tank top, or a tank top are inappropriate clothing for visiting temples. Knees, shoulders need to be covered; always leave your shoes at the entrance. Shoes are removed in places where there are special boot badges - this means that it is prohibited to enter the shoes.
No drugs or alcohol
Drinking alcohol will not add respect to you, and drugs are prohibited in many countries of the world - you can get severe punishment for their use.
Try to be useful to the maximum
Sample local delicacies, guides and local transportation. By doing this, you are helping the locals to earn extra money and support the country's economy.
